As the summer breeze touches your skin and the salty scent of the sea fills the air, anticipation builds. Tonight is a celebration of love and laughter. With your "Beyond the Sea" date night box, you're ready for a romantic journey inspired by the beach and summer.

Imagine the sound of waves as you open your date night box, revealing treasures that evoke the seaside. Let the beach vibes set the scene for an unforgettable evening. This is a night to honor your journey together, surrounded by the magic of the sea.

As you dive into the activities, let summer guide you. Picture yourselves building sandcastles, sharing secrets, and savoring treats that transport you to your favorite beach. Each element of your "Beyond the Sea" box is designed to enhance your connection and bring seaside romance to your home.

Remember the dreams you shared, the challenges you faced, and the milestones of your love story. Each memory is a gem in the masterpiece of your life together. Tonight, let the beach be the backdrop to your love story, where every wave and grain of sand symbolizes the strength of your bond.

Embrace this evening to create new memories, to laugh, and to look into each other's eyes with the same passion as the day you said "I do." Let your bond be the foundation for an adventure that continues to unfold, with each moment by the sea adding to your story.

As the night unfolds, let the "Beyond the Sea" experience remind you of the beauty of growing together in love. Let every glance, touch, and smile deepen your connection. The sea is vast and full of wonders, like the love you share.

Tonight celebrates companionship, the joy of the present, and the promise of a future filled with love and dreams. Here's to creating moments of intimacy with your "Beyond the Sea" date night box, where every moment together strengthens your bond. May tonight's date leave you with hearts full of love, minds inspired by each other's presence, and souls reinvigorated to continue this journey side by side.

Sexy Scenarios

Scenario 1- Splish Splash

Every product in this box can be experienced and even enhanced with the addition of water, so if your space allows, consider an intimate bath or shower experience. This scenario may go something like this:

She wears her EveryLove Lingerie. He turns on the Beyond the Sea Playlist.

They start with a make out session in the bedroom, he tells her what he loves about her new lingerie. 

She undresses him sensually, appreciating every inch of his skin with her hands and mouth. He returns the favor, and they tangle in the sheets together, using the Rhythm vibrator with their favorite water based lube if desired.

After, they run the bath. While they wait for it to fill, they share their favorite moments from their time in bed.

They drop the bath bomb in the water and enter together, finding a comfortable spot to relax.

They use the sugar scrub and loofah to exfoliate each other’s skin and fully relax together.

They enjoy the cookies in the bath and connect with a connecting question until the water gets cold and it’s time to snuggle in bed.

*If your space allows for sex in the bath, we do not recommend the simultaneous use of the bath bomb. Although not common, use of different dissolving products in the water during sexual activity can increase the risk of infection. Instead, consider using the Astroglide as an enhancement to sex in the water.

Scenario 2- Showers of Pleasure

They warm up the shower and turn on the Beyond the Sea Playlist. They undress each other, step into the water, and share an invigorating kiss.

They exfoliate with Island Dreams Sugar Scrub as their bodies warm each other in the cascading water. They use the loofah to wash each other sensually.

When ready they use the Rhythm vibrator to pleasure each other as rhetorical water flows.

They set aside the vibrator and use Astroglide to stimulate each other with their hands as the water flows around them and over them, creating a unique sensation of lube and water combining.

When ready, (or the hot water runs out), they make their way to the bed. She reclines in her EveryLove lingerie and they enjoy the cookies together as they ask connecting questions.

They share what they loved the most about this experience and what they look forward to in the next.

Scenario 3 - Beyond the “C”limax 

Use Scenario 1 or 2, or a combination of both to experiment with edging, where you choose to pleasure one another just to the point of orgasm but then stop just before in order to build further anticipation and lengthen your intimate time together. If you wish, end the night with a mutual climax, or attempt to wait until your next encounter (set a time in the very near future to share in this delayed gratification).

Guide to Using the Rhythm Vibrator for Mutual Pleasure


Exploring new ways to connect with your spouse can bring an exciting dimension to your relationship. The Rhythm Vibrator, made of high-quality silicone and completely waterproof, is designed to enhance intimacy and mutual pleasure. This guide will walk you through using the Rhythm Vibrator to deepen your connection and enjoy shared sensations.

Getting Started

Before you dive in, ensure you have a body-safe waterbased lubricant. *Astroglide is silicone based lube so we recommend using it in the shower or bath separately from the Rhythm Vibrator.

1 Apply Lubricant: Begin by applying a generous amount of lube to both the vibrator and the area you plan to stimulate. Remember, lube isn't just for internal use—it's great for maximizing the enjoyment of external stimulation too.

2 Turning on the Vibrator: Start with the lowest setting to familiarize yourself with the vibrations. The Rhythm Vibrator has multiple settings, so you can gradually increase the intensity as you become more comfortable.

Exploring Sensations

1 Initial Contact: Rather than going straight for erogenous zones, try rolling the vibrator along less sensitive areas like your forearm or thigh. This helps you get used to the sensation and discover what feels good.

2 Using the Large Rounded Base: For first-timers, the large rounded base of the vibrator might be less intense than the pointed tip. This can help you ease into the experience without overwhelming sensations.

Techniques for Mutual Pleasure

1 Experiment with Pressure: Play with different pressures and speeds. Pressing the vibrator more firmly or lightly tracing it across your skin can create varying sensations.

2 Exploring Erogenous Zones: Once you’re used to the feeling, move to more sensitive areas like the labia, nipples, and eventually the clitoris. Have fun exploring where the vibrator might create pleasureable sensations for him, including trying the nipples, above the penis, or the perineum. Every person is different, so take your time discovering what feels best for you and your spouse.

3 Quick vs. Slow Build-Up: Some might prefer holding the vibrator firmly against the clitoris for a quick orgasm. Others might enjoy lightly tapping or rolling the vibrator for a slower, more drawn-out build-up.

Advanced Techniques: Edging

Edging is a fantastic way to train yourself to experience different types and depths of orgasms. Here’s how to do it:

1 Build Up Slowly: Use the vibrator to gradually build up arousal. Focus on your breath and pleasure, pausing just before reaching climax.

2 Slow Down: When you feel you're close to climaxing, stop or slow down the vibrations. This can be done multiple times to extend the build-up.

3 Reaching New Heights: After a few cycles of building up and slowing down, allow yourself to reach climax. This often results in a much more intense and satisfying orgasm.


Using the Rhythm Vibrator can open new pathways to pleasure and intimacy in your relationship. By exploring together, communicating openly, and being patient with each other, you can deepen your connection and enjoy mutual pleasure in exciting new ways. Remember, the journey is as important as the destination—enjoy the process and have fun discovering new ways to pleasure each other.

Connecting Questions


  1. What’s your favorite memory of a beach trip we’ve taken together?
  2. What’s one of your favorite memories of us together?
  3. Was there a specific beach vacation that stands out to you as special or memorable? Why?
  4. Have you ever had a significant or spiritual moment by the ocean? What was it like?
  5. How do you feel our relationship has grown over the past year?


  1. What are three things you’re grateful for in our marriage right now?
  2. How do you feel when you’re sitting on the beach with the waves crashing nearby?
  3. What’s a new activity or hobby you’d like us to try together?
  4. How can we incorporate more “beach day” relaxation into our everyday lives?
  5. What are your thoughts when you see a beautiful sunset over the ocean?


  1. If we could visit any beach in the world, where would you want to go and why?
  2. How do you envision our future together in the next five years?
  3. What’s a challenge we’ve overcome together that you’re proud of?
  4. Do you see us living near the beach one day? What would that look like?
  5. What do you think is the key to maintaining a strong and loving marriage?

Fun and Lighthearted

  1. If you could be any sea creature, which one would you choose and why?
  2. What’s your favorite beach snack or treat?
  3. Would you rather build a sandcastle or go surfing together?
  4. If we had a beach bonfire, what songs would you want to sing or listen to?
  5. What’s one thing you’ve always wanted to do at the beach but never have?

Beyond the Sea Item List

🏝️ EveryLove Matching Lingerie

🏝️Island Dreams Sugar Scrub

🏝️Mango Bath Bomb

🏝️Natural Loofah

🏝️Waterproof Egg Vibrator

🏝️Waterproof Lube

🏝️Coconut Butter Cookies

Beyond the Box

Go beyond your intimate date night this month by utilizing the Weekly Marriage Check-In.

It will help you and your partner align your priorities and avoid potential roadblocks throughout your week. We recommend having a weekly meeting to fill out your sheet together!

Weekly Marriage Check In

We have an exciting bonus for you this month! We teamed up with "My Friend the Therapist" to bring you a specially crafted worksheet titled "The Soft Start-Up Technique." This resource is designed to help you navigate those moments when you experience friction points in your marriage.

We understand that even the best relationships can encounter rough patches. Sometimes, all it takes is a little guidance to steer the conversation in a positive direction. That's where our worksheet comes in. The Soft Start-Up Technique is a proven method to approach difficult conversations with empathy and understanding, helping you communicate more effectively with your spouse.

By using this worksheet, you'll learn how to start discussions gently and constructively, avoiding the pitfalls of defensive reactions or escalating tensions. It's packed with practical tips and exercises to practice this technique, ensuring you and your partner can work through disagreements smoothly and maintain a loving connection.

Think of this worksheet as your go-to tool for fostering healthy communication and resolving conflicts amicably. Whether you're dealing with minor misunderstandings or more significant issues, the Soft Start-Up Technique will empower you to address them with kindness and respect.

So, the next time you sense a bit of friction in your relationship, pull out this worksheet and follow the steps. It’s your solution to turning potentially tense moments into opportunities for growth and deeper intimacy. We believe it will make a meaningful difference in how you and your partner navigate your journey together.

The Soft Start Up Worksheet