Draw a warm bath and add the bath bomb and pheromone bubble bath. Let the bubbles rise as you take your time setting the space—lighting candles, dimming the lights, and playing soft music to help you both slow down.

When the bath is ready, step in together and allow yourselves to simply be. The water should feel like a reset. Let it carry away the stress of the day so you can turn your focus toward each other.

Take turns gently washing one another using the loufa, letting your hands linger as you move over shoulders, arms, back, and chest. Stay fully present. The goal isn’t to clean—it's to connect. Let your touch say what words don’t need to. Explore slowly. Adjust to each other’s pace.

When you’re done, help each other out of the bath. Towel off with care, as if every moment is an extension of the affection you just shared.

She slips into the lingerie, letting that small act feel intimate, not performative. It’s not about how it looks—it’s about how it feels to be seen, wanted, and chosen.

Move together to a space that feels comfortable, whether it’s the bed or a blanket on the floor. Let your hands pick up where they left off, only now with growing anticipation. Use the vibrator and the lube to extend the experience—keeping things slow, intentional, and mutual. You’re not chasing a finish line. You’re savoring each other.

When you’re both satisfied, or simply feel full from the connection, don’t pull away too quickly. Lay together. Breathe together. Let the quiet wrap around you like a final touch—reminding you that moments like these are worth creating again and again.

Start by stepping into the shower together. Let the hot water pour over both of you, warming your skin and waking up your senses.

Take a moment to adjust to being close like this—bare, vulnerable, and fully present. You’re here to connect, not just to rinse off the day.

Lather the loofah with body wash and begin washing each other slowly. Let your hands follow the curves you’ve memorized but don’t always take time to appreciate.

As the loofah glides across skin, shift your attention to the response beneath your fingertips. You’re not just washing—you’re exploring. Take turns, trading roles and letting each other feel cared for, touched, wanted.

Bring the waterproof vibrator into the shower when you’re both warmed up and fully relaxed.

It’s a chance to experiment with touch and sensation in a way that’s playful but deeply connected. One of you leads, the other responds—then switch.

Let the sound of water and the steam surrounding you heighten the experience, helping you stay fully present with every breath and every moan.

When the time feels right, open the lube pack and let it make everything more fluid, more intimate, more responsive.

Whether you choose to finish in the shower or carry the experience to the bedroom, let the products serve your connection—not replace it. They’re tools that make it easier to focus on what matters most: each other.

When you're done, dry off slowly, together. No rushing to get dressed. No turning away. Just the calm that comes after being known, touched, and loved with intention.

Use Scenario 1 or 2, or a combination of both to experiment with edging, where you choose to pleasure one another just to the point of orgasm but then stop just before in order to build further anticipation and lengthen your intimate time together. If you wish, end the night with a mutual climax, or attempt to wait until your next encounter (set a time in the very near future to share in this delayed gratification).

Tonight is about getting close. Over and over again. You’re not trying to finish quickly—you’re trying to feel everything. This is a night built around restraint, anticipation, and that delicious ache that comes from being right on the edge… then stopping.

Start with touch. No distractions, no rush. She wears the lingerie, not as a costume, but as an invitation—something to unwrap slowly. The first goal isn’t climax. It’s arousal. Heighten it. Let it build.

Use the lube to make every movement smoother and more sensitive. Explore with your hands. Then bring in the vibrator—but not for long. Tease with it. Let it hover. Let it build your partner up to the point where their breath catches, their hips start to move on instinct… and then stop.

Pull back.

Switch roles, or keep going. Whichever of you is in control should be paying attention—to every moan, every pause, every twitch. You’re watching for the edge. And once it’s close, you slow down again.

You might do this once. Or three times. Or more. The goal is to stretch out pleasure—to turn a moment into a memory.

Eventually, when it’s time to let go, let it happen together. Or maybe you wait longer. Either way, the release will be deeper, stronger, more connected—because it wasn’t just physical. It was built on trust. On surrender. On the knowing that your pleasure is in your partner’s hands, and theirs is in yours.

And that’s the kind of intimacy that lingers long after the night ends.

Introduction

Exploring new ways to connect with your spouse can bring an exciting dimension to your relationship. The Rhythm Vibrator, made of high-quality silicone and completely waterproof, is designed to enhance intimacy and mutual pleasure. This guide will walk you through using the Rhythm Vibrator to deepen your connection and enjoy shared sensations.

Getting Started

Before you dive in, ensure you have a body-safe waterbased lubricant. *Astroglide is silicone based lube so we recommend using it in the shower or bath separately from the Rhythm Vibrator.

1 Apply Lubricant: Begin by applying a generous amount of lube to both the vibrator and the area you plan to stimulate. Remember, lube isn't just for internal use—it's great for maximizing the enjoyment of external stimulation too.

2 Turning on the Vibrator: Start with the lowest setting to familiarize yourself with the vibrations. The Rhythm Vibrator has multiple settings, so you can gradually increase the intensity as you become more comfortable.

Exploring Sensations

1 Initial Contact: Rather than going straight for erogenous zones, try rolling the vibrator along less sensitive areas like your forearm or thigh. This helps you get used to the sensation and discover what feels good.

2 Using the Large Rounded Base: For first-timers, the large rounded base of the vibrator might be less intense than the pointed tip. This can help you ease into the experience without overwhelming sensations.

Techniques for Mutual Pleasure

1 Experiment with Pressure: Play with different pressures and speeds. Pressing the vibrator more firmly or lightly tracing it across your skin can create varying sensations.

2 Exploring Erogenous Zones: Once you’re used to the feeling, move to more sensitive areas like the labia, nipples, and eventually the clitoris. Have fun exploring where the vibrator might create pleasureable sensations for him, including trying the nipples, above the penis, or the perineum. Every person is different, so take your time discovering what feels best for you and your spouse.

3 Quick vs. Slow Build-Up: Some might prefer holding the vibrator firmly against the clitoris for a quick orgasm. Others might enjoy lightly tapping or rolling the vibrator for a slower, more drawn-out build-up.

Advanced Techniques: Edging

Edging is a fantastic way to train yourself to experience different types and depths of orgasms. Here’s how to do it:

1 Build Up Slowly: Use the vibrator to gradually build up arousal. Focus on your breath and pleasure, pausing just before reaching climax.

2 Slow Down: When you feel you're close to climaxing, stop or slow down the vibrations. This can be done multiple times to extend the build-up.

3 Reaching New Heights: After a few cycles of building up and slowing down, allow yourself to reach climax. This often results in a much more intense and satisfying orgasm.

Conclusion

Using the Rhythm Vibrator can open new pathways to pleasure and intimacy in your relationship. By exploring together, communicating openly, and being patient with each other, you can deepen your connection and enjoy mutual pleasure in exciting new ways. Remember, the journey is as important as the destination—enjoy the process and have fun discovering new ways to pleasure each other.

Past

1. What’s your favorite memory of a beach trip we’ve taken together?
2. What’s one of your favorite memories of us together?
3. Was there a specific beach vacation that stands out to you as special or memorable? Why?
4. Have you ever had a significant or spiritual moment by the ocean? What was it like?
5. How do you feel our relationship has grown over the past year?

Present

1. What are three things you’re grateful for in our marriage right now?
2. How do you feel when you’re sitting on the beach with the waves crashing nearby?
3. What’s a new activity or hobby you’d like us to try together?
4. How can we incorporate more “beach day” relaxation into our everyday lives?
5. What are your thoughts when you see a beautiful sunset over the ocean?

Future

1. If we could visit any beach in the world, where would you want to go and why?
2. How do you envision our future together in the next five years?
3. What’s a challenge we’ve overcome together that you’re proud of?
4. Do you see us living near the beach one day? What would that look like?
5. What do you think is the key to maintaining a strong and loving marriage?

Fun and Lighthearted

1. If you could be any sea creature, which one would you choose and why?
2. What’s your favorite beach snack or treat?
3. Would you rather build a sandcastle or go surfing together?
4. If we had a beach bonfire, what songs would you want to sing or listen to?
5. What’s one thing you’ve always wanted to do at the beach but never have?