"Love is like electricity: it may shock you yet you cannot live without it"

Before beginning review the suggested dance moves (or customize your own). Then use the markers to write the numbers 1 through 6 (or the names of your chosen dance moves) on both of your bodies in different places.

She puts on the lingerie while he sets up the black light. (If desired, he wears the candy necklace and she wears the heart pasties, but you might also want to save them for future scenarios).

Start the Electric Love playlist and begin dancing together. Move closer to each other, sway, look into each others eyes, or kiss during slow parts in the music. Glide your hands up and down each others’ bodies, and when the beat drops, whichever dance move (written on your partner) your hand  is closest to is the move you must execute. Make it as sensual as you want. You can even try the move in close contact with each other. When you both think the move would feel nice horizontal, lose the lingerie and try the move as you dirty dance in bed. If you’re really into it, try adapting one of these dance moves into your own custom sex position or technique. Now is also a great time to slow things down and experiment with the tingling balm.

If you don’t just completely pass out after that sexy workout you just gave each other, enjoy a few connecting questions as you catch your breath.

Suggested Dance Moves:

1. Body Roll
2. Hip Thrust
3. Twerk
4. Dolphin Dive
5. Drop it Low
6. Feelin’ Myself

"We will make love an art and we will make love like artists." 

Each of you go into a separate room with at least one of the markers. Prepare by decorating yourself as you see fit with the items included in the box (we recommend she wears the pasties and he wears the candy), and of course draw on yourselves with the markers. Add cute or flirty marker masterpieces on yourself. Then spend a few minutes planning a short dance for your partner. If you’re comfortable, you can completely improvise this. If you’re not sure what to do, try using YouTube to find a few dance moves you can try. If you’re nervous, practice them in front of a mirror a few times.

As you dance follow this one important rule: you cannot touch your partner until you’ve both performed, you dance a while together (coming so close to touch but not allowing your bodies to make contact), and you undress.

When you are both ready, give each other the all clear to meet on the bed. Turn on Electric Love playlist or whatever song you are comfortable dancing to. Choose who goes first. One relaxes on the bed and enjoys the show for an agreed upon amount of time while the other dances, then you swap. If you still haven’t jumped in bed together or at least gotten your hands on each other at this point, join each other in dancing with each other. Let your bodies connect and move with one another, possibly close your eyes and just feel your partner dance with you. Experiment also with dancing close to one another without touching. Feel the electricity between you as you gaze into each others eyes or run your eyes along their body but keep your hands to yourself. Enjoy the heat building up inside you. You can take it to another level by undressing yourselves or each other and continuing your dance. 

When you’ve finally reached this point, and you agree together, it’s time to dance not just with each other but on each other, your bodies finally embracing and the energy colliding in one indescribable rush of warmth and ecstasy. Now, while you are still dancing, is a great way to experiment with the tingling balm. Enjoy wherever the night takes you to its fullest.

Afterward, be very complimentary, sharing what you loved about how they look, their dancing, anything that stood out in the designs they tried with the markers, your favorite parts about not touching, what you enjoyed the most when you finally did connect, etc.

"Your love is sweeter than candy so keep swingin it my way."

Set up the black light and play the Electric Love playlist. He wears the candy necklace and she wears the heart pasties underneath her EveryLove lingerie. Begin the night with some connecting questions, already dancing together as you chat.

Take a break and move to the bed. Draw some sweet notes or cute personalized messages or pictures on each other, but don’t look at what the other person wrote just yet. Be thoughtful and cute. Perhaps hide a few messages underneath each others lingerie or clothing.

Now get back up and dance together, moving your bodies in ways that feel good to each other. Every time the music slows down, take turns removing an article of clothing. When you are both fully undressed, bring the candy necklace to the bed and lay down together. Take turns placing the candy on a note or picture you drew on your partner. Now they can view that particular message, and move the candy to an undecorated part of their body they would like you to eat the candy off of. Then switch roles until the candy necklace is gone or both spouses are fully satisfied with the “candy” they’ve ate. 

Ex: He wrote “i love ur eyes” on her shoulder so he now puts a piece of candy on her shoulder. She reads the note, then moves the candy to her neck. He sensually uses his mouth to lick, suck, nibble, etc the candy off of her neck. Then it’s her turn to place a candy on him. She drew three hearts (one for each year they’ve been married) on his back. She puts the candy there, and then explains the drawing to him. He then moves the candy down to his lower back, where she enjoys eating it off of him. They keep switching back and forth like this. 

*if you run out of notes but want to keep playing you can just place the candy where you want them to eat it. You can also add a compliment or verbal love note as you place the candy to keep the sweetness going.

Sweet Note Ideas:

Ur Love is Electric

I <3 U

UR sweeter than candy

Cute (with an arrow pointing to the body part you are complimenting) ex: write “cute” on their lower back pointing to their butt 

U light up my world

L. Love you

O. Only you

V. Very much

E. Every moment

What's your favorite spot on my body to kiss?

If you could describe our relationship with a song, what would it be and why?

What's one thing I do that always makes you smile?

What was your first impression of me when we met?

What's your favorite memory of a date we had together?

If you could plan the perfect date night for us, what would it look like?

What’s a secret fantasy you have about us?

What's your favorite way for me to show you love and affection?

What’s one thing you love that I do in the bedroom?

What part of our relationship are you most grateful for?

If we could travel anywhere in the world together, where would you want to go?

What's something you'd love for us to try together?

What's your favorite compliment you've ever received from me?

What’s the most romantic thing I've ever done for you?

If you could relive any day of our relationship, which day would it be and why?

What's one thing you'd love to do together that we've never done before?

How do you feel when we cuddle?

What's one thing you admire most about me?

What's your favorite outfit that I wear?

What's a silly nickname you'd love to give me?