Apply Touch Body Oil or your favorite massage butter (we also love cocoa butter with the guasha)
-*Gently* press and glide along muscles, not bone. Experiment with different pressure as your partner desires.
-If this is your first time using a guasha, try a small section first with light pressure and wait a few hours to make sure you aren’t too sore.
-Place guasha in warm water or ice water and then glide along the surface of your partner’s skin for a sensual change in temperature.

-Lay out on the bed or nightstand, or on the edge of the bath. Combine with lights off or other dim lighting.
-These are fun to set out as a little signal that you want some intimate time with your spouse.

This tickler pairs beautifully with romantic love-making and will help encourage adventurous exploration of each other's bodies and sensory discovery.

Light touches on the body stimulate the skin and invite blood to the surface to increase sensitivity and heighten pleasure.

Experiment with different types of touches, using some barely-there brushes and other longer more drawn-out strokes. Discover what your partner likes and how they react to each caress. Try a blind fold for even more sensory exploration.

Follow the tickler with your hand or lips or tongue for more fun. Combine with butterfly kisses (eyelashes), gentle whispers in their ear or other playful and romantic touches.

Try this Tickle Strip Tease: Use the tickler in any way you wish, and if they laugh, they remove an article of clothing. If they don't laugh you remove one.

-Dispense a little into your hands and rub them gently to warm the oil.
-Massage just with your hands, or pair with the guasha or massage stones.

Before using a sex toy, it’s a great idea talk about what you think will feel good with the vibrator and anything that might be making you nervous in trying it out. You can also set ground rules you both feel comfortable with that will lead to deeper intimacy within your marriage.

He holds the vibrator in his hand and gently presses it on different parts of her body that she feels comfortable with (neck, abdomen, thighs, etc) He works his way to her panties and tries the vibrator over them. If the sensation feels too strong for her, he can also place the vibrator further back on his palm and let the gentle vibrations through his fingertips caress her rather than using direct contact.
If she feels more comfortable, she can try holding the vibrator or placing her hand with his to guide him where it feels good. Try running the vibrator up and down the labia or circling the clitoris without touching it right away. 
They keep experimenting, and when they are ready they can try direct contact, different settings, incorporating the clitoral balm, a compatible lube, or anything else that sounds pleasurable.
*be sure to clean vibrator before and after use
**because of it’s size and shape, we do not recommend this vibrator for internal use

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