Lover's Journey
Embark on a journey of unforgettable moments!
Embark on the adventure of a lifetime with our Lovers' Journey date night box, designed to take you and your partner on the first step towards deeper intimacy and stronger connection. This isn't just a box—it's the beginning of an exciting path to rediscovering each other in new and meaningful ways.
Picture this: an evening filled with laughter, heartfelt conversations, and moments that make you fall in love all over again. Each item in your Lovers' Journey box has been thoughtfully curated to inspire closeness, ignite passion, and encourage the exploration of your unique love story.
As you embark on your Lovers' Journey, we invite you to dive into one of the most exciting aspects of intimate connection: creating your Sexy Bucket List. We've discovered that one of the quickest and most thrilling ways for couples to connect is by forming a vision of their sex life and bringing that vision to life.
In this box, we've prepared three different sexy scenarios for you and your partner to explore. Each scenario is designed to spark your imagination, ignite your passion, and bring you closer together in new and exhilarating ways.
But the adventure doesn’t stop there. We encourage you to dream big and create your own unique adventures. Think of this as an opportunity to communicate openly about your desires, set new goals for your intimate life, and embark on a journey of shared fantasies and mutual pleasure.
Use this box as a starting point to build a vision of your ideal sex life, and then take action to make that vision happen. Your Sexy Bucket List is a living, evolving testament to your commitment to each other and to keeping your love life exciting and vibrant.
So, get ready to dream, explore, and create unforgettable memories together. The journey to a more connected, passionate relationship starts now!
Sexy Scenarios
Scenario 1 - Tickled Pink
This scenario uses the feather tickler. This tickler pairs beautifully with romantic love-making and will help encourage adventurous exploration of each other's bodies and sensory discovery.
Light touches on the body stimulate the skin and invite blood to the surface to increase sensitivity and heighten pleasure.
Experiment with different types of touches, using some barely-there brushes and other longer more drawn-out strokes. Discover what your partner likes and how they react to each caress. Try a blind fold for even more sensory exploration.
Follow the tickler with your hand or lips or tongue for more fun. Combine with butterfly kisses (eyelashes), gentle whispers in their ear or other playful and romantic touches.
Try this Tickle Strip Tease: Use the tickler in any way you wish, and if they laugh, they remove an article of clothing. If they don't laugh you remove one.
Scenario 2 - Naked Quickie
Quickies are an amzing tool that we think ever couple should work to master!
This scenario uses your Naked Silk Lube. We've created a list of places where your quickie might take place:
Kitchen
Dining Room Table
Stairs
Couch
On the Washer or Dryer
Backyard
Walk-in-Closet
In the Car
In the hall against the Wall
In Bed
If you're feeling brave have your partner pick a number between 1-10 without looking and go to that location for your quickie.
If you'd rather decide together, sit down and rate your favorites from 1 to 10 (number 1 is top!). Add your two numbers together and the location with the lowest score wins!
Tips for Quickies: Mix it up by keeping your clothes on.
Talk to each other to get in the mood and feel more connected quickly.
Use lube to help things move along quickly.
Foreplay All Day. Quickies sometimes just happen, but other times they are the beautiful culmination of a day filled with foreplay.
Do or don't have intercourse, just have a great time!
Scenario 3 - Sex in the Bath
This scenario uses the bath bomb and cookies. * Use this checklist to create your fantasy bathtub encounter with your partner. Each of you (on your own printable or phone) check off all the things on the list you think would create the perfect experience. Compare lists and try everything that overlaps on your list. <3 You can also add your own ideas to the list!
Warnings: We recommend using bath bomb AFTER sex, during can increase risk of UTIs. Or use bath bomb in the bath for light foreplay then move to the bed or shower for intercourse.
Connecting Questions
What are three fantasies you've always wanted to explore together?
How do you envision our ideal sex life in the future?
What are some adventurous locations you'd like to try for our intimate moments?
Are there any new positions or techniques you’re curious about?
What role-playing scenarios would you like to experiment with?
What type of lingerie or clothing turns you on the most?
How do you feel about incorporating toys into our intimate moments?
What kind of romantic or sexy surprises would you enjoy planning for each other?
How do you feel about trying out themed date nights (e.g., beach, exotic destinations)?
What are some ways we can make our intimate moments more exciting and spontaneous?
What are some small gestures that turn you on throughout the day?
How do you feel about receiving flirty texts or messages during the day?
What kind of physical touch do you enjoy the most as part of foreplay?
How can we use our daily routines to build anticipation for intimacy?
What are some of your favorite ways to tease and flirt with each other?
How do you feel about public displays of affection, and what’s your comfort level with them?
What are some ways we can incorporate foreplay into our morning routines?
How can we use shared activities (like cooking or working out) to create sexual tension?
What are your thoughts on surprising each other with unexpected acts of intimacy?
How can we keep the excitement and anticipation alive when we’re apart during the day?
Item List
EveryLove Lingerie
Naked Silk Lube
Bath Bomb
Touch Body Oil
Feather Tickler
Sexy Bucket List Notebook
Vanilla Crisp Cookies
Sexy Bucket List Ideas
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Destination
- In the shower or bath
- Out in nature or by a pool
- On the couch
- On the washer or dryer
- By the fire
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Time of Day
- As soon as you wake up
- At midnight
- On your lunch break
- Afternoon delight
- Before going out on a date
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Adventurous
- Role play something you've always desired
- Sexy dance/ Lap dance
- Use a vibrator
- Try a new toy you’ve never tried
- Use a feather tickler, paddle or whip
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Playful
- Netflix and chill (Have sex while you watch Netflix)
- Sexy board game
- Grab some body paint and get messy
- Strip poker or dice
- Naked twister
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Positions
- Oral only/69
- Corkscrew
- Ballet Dancer
- Spider
- Butterfly
- G-whiz
- Doggy style
- Wheelbarrow
- Caboose
- Pretzel Dip
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Foreplay
- Dirty talk to each other throughout the day
- Have a sexy photo shoot
- Send steamy texts to eachother throughout the day
- Try edging (get almost to climax and then stop, as many times as you want)
- Write down what you will do to the other and read it aloud
Beyond the Box
Go beyond your intimate date night this month by utilizing the Weekly Marriage Check-In.
It will help you and your partner align your priorities and avoid potential roadblocks throughout your week. We recommend having a weekly meeting to fill out your sheet together!