Don’t forget to flip through your fantasy book. It’s not about acting—it’s about experiencing something new together. Trying new things as a couple is one of the best ways to stay connected, curious, and totally into each other.

Start the night by turning everything off—TV, phones, notifications. This is your escape. Whether you’re in a hotel room or just shutting the door to your bedroom, treat this time like a getaway from everything else.

She puts on the lingerie and body jewelry. Don’t rush it. Let it feel intentional.

He sprays on the pheromone cologne. Say nothing—just move close enough for her to notice it on your skin.

Sit together with the dice between you. You'll move through three rounds. In each round, take 2 turns each, alternating who rolls. (So a total of 4 rolls per round.) The person who receives the touch gets to roll.

Just the two of you, fully present.

Round One – Feather Tease

Take turns using the feather tickler—slowly. One partner lies back while the other traces from head to toe. No talking. No kissing. Just watching and listening with your hands.

After each tease, the one being touched rolls the dice and the action is carried out.

DICE ACTIONS – ROUND ONE

1 – Neck & Shoulders

Tease the sides of the neck, across the collarbone, and over the tops of the shoulders.

2 – Chest & Stomach

Lightly graze over the chest—above or under lingerie—then slowly drag the feather in circles across the stomach.

3 – Inner Thighs

Start at the knees and move upward. Slow, teasing strokes along the inner thighs.

4 – Back & Spine

If they’re on their stomach, trace the feather down the center of their back, following the line of the spine, then outward toward the lower back and sides.

5 – Arms & Hands

Run the tickler from shoulder to wrist, along the inside of the arm. Finish by tracing between their fingers and over the palms.

6 – Hips & Outer Thighs

Circle the feather over the hips, across the waistband, and down the outer thighs. Let it skim just below where clothing ends.

Switch roles after each turn. Keep it quiet, slow, and intentional. This round is all about creating tension without giving in to it—yet.

Round Two – Hands Only

No talking. No kissing. Just your hands, your breath, and the places that make them melt.

You each take two turns as the giver and two turns as the receiver. After each round of touch, the receiver rolls the dice to determine which erogenous zone their partner will focus on next.

Use your hands with intention—over lingerie, under it, on bare skin—whatever feels right. Move slow enough to make them ache.

DICE ACTIONS – EROGENOUS ZONES FOR TOUCH

1 – Inner Thighs

Start just above the knees. Use slow, deliberate strokes inward. Pause just before reaching the center. Then do it again. And again.

2 – Neck & Ears

Run your fingers along the sides of the neck, trace under the jaw, and lightly graze around the ears. Use your breath close to their skin without touching.

3 – Lower Back & Hips

Slide your hands along the waistband. Press gently into the small of their back. Grip their hips like you're holding them in place for something more.

4 – Chest & Nipples

Trace your fingertips around their chest. Over lingerie or under. Circle around the nipples. Light touches. Then firmer. Then back to light.

5 – Butt & Back of Thighs

Knead gently. Explore curves and tension. Let your hands slide along the back of their thighs, from bottom to top.

6 – Between the Legs

Use your hands to explore over clothing or lingerie. Palm pressure, slow circles, teasing just enough to drive them crazy—but not quite enough to finish anything.

Round Three – Give In

If you're both ready, bring out the lube. You're not teasing anymore—you're giving in.

She may still be in lingerie, or not. Either way, grab the lube and place the dice between you. This round is about pleasure. Pure and intentional.

Each of you takes two turns, alternating who rolls and who acts. The roller performs the action below. Use the lube generously, let it heighten every sensation.

DICE ACTIONS – SEXUAL ACTIONS

1 – Lube Massage Between the Legs

Use your hands and the lube to massage your partner between their legs—over or under, depending on where you are in the moment. No rushing. Just steady, focused touch.

2 – Oral Tease

Start oral—but don’t finish. Focus on teasing: slow licks, gentle sucking, light kisses. Build pressure and then stop. Look them in the eyes.

3 – Guided Touch

Have your partner lie back and guide your hand where they want to be touched. Let them tell you the speed, the pressure, everything. Don’t stop until they say so.

4 – Grinding / Dry Sex

Stay partially clothed and straddle each other. Let the lube and lingerie make it extra slippery. Grind together—slow, deep, teasing thrusts with everything pressed together but nothing inside (yet).

5 – Take Control

Pick a position. Make the first move. Let your partner feel you take over—confident, intentional, and hungry for them.

6 – Full Access

You both remove anything left. No more teasing. Use the lube. Choose any position. Do what you’ve both been thinking about since Round One. This is the moment.

Repeat or keep going as long as it feels good. You don’t need to follow all the rolls. You just needed a reason to slow down—and a way to heat back up.

Tonight isn’t about trying harder. It’s about remembering who you are to each other. The best kind of intimacy doesn’t rush—it rests, reflects, and reconnects. This is your space to do just that.

Start like this:

Get ready slowly. Shower, take your time, and reset your body for connection—not for performance.

She wears the lingerie—not for show, but as a reminder: I choose to show up for you.

He sprays the pheromone cologne—not to impress, but to draw her closer.

Turn off every distraction. Light a candle. Play music that makes you both feel warm. Sit face-to-face, knees touching, skin brushing, hearts open.

Place the dice between you.

How It Works

You’ll each take three turns, alternating rolls. The person who rolls speaks from the heart, while the other responds silently—with a kiss, a hand on their chest, a forehead press, or a soft smile.

This is about letting your words do the touching.

DICE PROMPTS – Speak gently, honestly, and fully present:

1 – “One moment with you I’ll remember forever is…”

2 – “Here’s something I love about who you are..."

3 – “I feel most connected to you when we…”

4 – “Here’s something you’ve done lately that made me feel loved..."

5 – “If I could freeze one moment of our life together and relive it, it would be…”

6 – “Here’s a part of you I deeply admire and hope I never take for granted.”

After each person shares, pause. Hold each other. Let it land.

What Happens After

When the dice are done, there’s no next step. Just closeness.

Lay together. Touch if it feels right. Kiss slowly. Maybe let your hands wander—maybe not.

Let this night be a reminder: intimacy isn’t something you chase. It’s something you choose.

Each idea in this collection is designed to spark imagination, but the real magic happens when you add your personal twist.

The goal isn’t to act like strangers or become someone else—it’s to reimagine your connection as a married couple and explore sides of your relationship that don’t always get airtime.

Here’s how to take a simple idea and bring it to life:

13. Teacher and Naughty Student

He just got home from campus, still in his button-up and slacks, and you meet him at the bedroom door with a playful smirk and a clipboard in hand. “Professor,” you say, “I missed too many classes this week... I’m going to need some extra credit.”

• Wear something “innocent but sexy” under a cardigan—like lingerie and a plaid skirt or blouse unbuttoned just enough.
• Greet him at the door like you’ve booked a “private tutoring session.”
• Use the feather tickler to “test his focus,” and make him sit in the desk chair while you slowly “review the lesson plan.”
  

89. Private Strip Show

After a long week, you decide he deserves a performance. You set the mood: music, lighting, maybe a chair in the middle of the room. No audience. No pressure. Just you showing him exactly what he has to look forward to.

• Wear your favorite lingerie from the box—but layer a robe or button-down over it.
• Tell him he can’t touch until you say so.
• Strip slowly, using eye contact and a little teasing distance.
• Incorporate body jewelry and let the dice decide what comes off next.
  
  

61. Running Late Quickie

You’re both dressed and halfway out the door for a dinner reservation when you brush past each other in the hallway—and stop. One of you pulls the other into the bedroom and locks the door. The tension is too high. Clothes come off fast. You’ll just… be late.

• Don’t undress all the way—keep shoes, jewelry, or shirts on for the “we’re not supposed to be doing this” vibe.
• Use a timer and try to beat the clock.
• Make it spontaneous, a little messy, and totally worth the wait.