This Valentine’s Day, forget the routine. Forget the pressure to make everything perfect. This is your moment to rediscover the magic of just being together. The kind of night where the world outside disappears, and it’s just the two of you, reconnecting on a deeper level.

There’s something special about sharing a night that’s all about your love—no distractions, no expectations, just pure, unfiltered connection. It’s a chance to remind each other of why you fell in love, why you chose each other, and why you’re still choosing to grow together.

The excitement builds as you step into a space where only passion and playfulness exist. There’s a spark in the air, a sense of adventure that’s just waiting to unfold between the two of you. You both deserve a night where intimacy isn’t just a task on the to-do list but a shared experience that leaves you feeling closer, more in love, and ready to face the world together—stronger than ever.

This Valentine’s Day isn’t about perfection. It’s about connection. It’s about creating moments that make your heart race and your soul feel alive. Ready to make this the kind of night that leaves you both wanting more? Because when you’re together, anything is possible.

Sexy Scenarios

Optional Prayer and Verse for Your Marriage

Song of Solomon 1:2"Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth— for your love is more delightful than wine."

Thank You for the gift of love, intimacy, and passion in marriage. You designed this union to be filled with joy, connection, and delight. As we set aside time to cherish one another, help us to embrace the beauty of this moment. May our hearts be open, our love be deepened, and our intimacy reflect the sacred bond You created. Bless our marriage with laughter, tenderness, and passion, drawing us closer not just to each other but also to You. In Jesus' name, Amen.

Scenario 1 - XOXO

It’s been a day full of romance—little kisses in the morning, playful teasing in the afternoon, and now… it’s time to take things up a notch. Tonight, you and your spouse are playing to win—but the real prize? Each other.

Step 1: Setting the Scene

Before you bring out the XOXO Tic-Tac-Toe board, make sure the mood is just right:
✔️ Dim the lights or utilize lamps/secondary lighting to create a soft, intimate glow.
✔️ Scatter deep red rose petals on the bed or floor where you’ll play.
✔️ Put on your sexy scent (and have your spouse do the same)—so every move brings you closer with an irresistible aroma.
✔️ Play your sultry playlist in the background to set the tone.

Now, bring out the game board and place it in front of you.

Step 2: How to Play

Unlike regular tic-tac-toe, this game is designed to build tension and anticipation with every move.

🖤 The board has two layers:

  • The top layer is the standard tic-tac-toe grid where you’ll place your X’s and O’s.
  • The bottom layer holds hidden actions that can only be revealed once someone wins.

Choose which game board you will place underneath. We recommend starting with connecting questions to build emotional intimacy before getting to the more steamy boards!

✅ Each turn, alternate placing your game pieces until someone gets 3 in a row!
✅ Once someone gets three in a row, the winning row is lifted—revealing the secret actions underneath.
✅ The winner gets to choose what order to perform the 3 actions from their row and decide how the night unfolds.

Step 3: The Moment of Truth

Finally—three in a row!

Slowly, the winner lifts the top board, revealing the three secret actions underneath. They might see:

  • "Full-Body Massage with the Evree Cream"
  • "Sensual Strip Tease (Winner’s Choice)"
  • "Use the Blindfold & Let Your Spouse Take Control"

No matter what, this game doesn’t have a loser—just a night of intimacy, laughter, and unforgettable connection.

Step 4: The Grand Finale

With the game complete and the prize claimed, the only thing left to do is savor the moment.

  • Maybe it’s a massage that turns into more
  • Maybe it’s a blindfolded adventure where touch is the only guide…
  • Or maybe it’s a slow, teasing dance that leaves your partner completely captivated.

Either way, XOXO Tic-Tac-Toe isn’t just a game—it’s the beginning of a night you’ll both be thinking about long after the last piece is placed. ❤️🔥

Scenario 2 - X marks the spot, O is the goal

She heads to the guest room or bathroom to slip into the her lingerie and apply on the XOXO sexy scent for her, taking a moment to admire herself and embrace her confidence.

While she’s getting ready, he’s in the bedroom setting the tone for the evening. He scatters the deep red rose petals across the bed and a little on the floor for a romantic touch, then applies the XOXO sexy scent for him on his neck, chest, and wrists.

When she walks into the room, she takes her time showing off the lingerie—maybe with a spin, a dance, or a confident strut to the bed. He lets himself take in every detail, appreciating her fully. He compliments her, saying things like, “You’re absolutely stunning,” or, “You take my breath away.” Then, he pulls her in close for a soft, lingering kiss, letting their scents mingle and the anticipation build.

Before jumping into the fun, they take a moment to connect emotionally. Sitting together on the bed or standing close, they hold hands and let the world fade away. They use the couples’ prayer included in the box or simply embrace for a long hug, focusing fully on each other and the love they share.

With the mood set, they grab the satin ribbon blindfold and decide who’s going first. The blindfolded partner lies back on the bed while the other warms some Evree intimate massage cream in their hands. Starting with slow, sensual strokes, they massage shoulders, arms, legs, or anywhere that needs extra love. They whisper sweet things like, “How does this feel?” or, “I love touching you like this.”

For her, applying the included lipstick becomes part of the surprise. She plants kisses all over his body, letting him guess where her lips will land next. She might even draw playful hearts, pet names, or little arrows pointing to his favorite spots. For him, the massage focuses on her erogenous zones—her neck, inner thighs, feet, and lower back. He takes his time, adding soft kisses and whispered words in her ear, letting the tension slowly build. The blindfold amplifies every sensation, creating trust and excitement. They switch roles to ensure they both feel equally cherished.

Afterward, they take a break to enjoy the box of chocolate truffles together. Feeding each other slowly, they let each bite linger, teasing one another with eye contact and soft touches. While savoring the chocolates, they use the connecting questions included in the box to spark meaningful conversations and deepen their emotional connection.

Next, they bring out the sexy tic-tac-toe board labeled HIS and HERS. Together, they fill the squares with flirty, seductive actions like:

  • A 30-second makeout session.
  • Whispering something you’ve never told them before.
  • Kissing their favorite spot.
  • A 1-minute massage anywhere they choose.
  • A slow dance without music.
  • A playful lap dance.
  • A gentle bite on the neck.
  • Sharing an intimate secret.
  • A kiss that lasts until you run out of breath.

The winner gets to decide how the rest of the night unfolds!

As the evening winds down, they lay together in the rose petals, breathing in each other’s scents and holding one another close. Whispering affirmations like, “You’re everything I’ve ever wanted,” or, “I’ve never felt closer to you,” they savor the intimacy they’ve built throughout the night. From there, they let the evening flow naturally, enjoying the connection they’ve created.

 

Scenario 3 - All Day Valentines Love (Full day experience)

Morning: Slow, Sweet, & Romantic

💋 Scent the Moment – As soon as you wake up, spritz on your sexy scent—one for him, one for her. Let the fragrance be a subtle promise of the passion to come.

🥞 Breakfast in Bed – Surprise your spouse with a decadent, romantic breakfast in bed. Try one of these delicious recipes:
🍓 [Fluffy Strawberry Pancakes with Whipped Cream]
🥐 [Chocolate-Dipped Croissants]
🍯 [Honey & Vanilla Yogurt Parfaits]

🎶 Set the Mood – Play this morning romance playlist while you eat, lounge, and enjoy each other’s presence. Light touches, whispered compliments, and an unrushed start to the day will make it extra special.

💌 A Little Love Note – Before getting out of bed, take 5 minutes to write each other a short love note. Here’s a prompt if you need inspiration:
👉 “One thing I absolutely adore about you (but don’t say enough) is…”
Exchange them after breakfast and soak in the sweetness of each other’s words.

Midday: Playful Adventure & Connection

🚗 Spontaneous Road Trip Game – Ready to make some unexpected memories?

  • Toss red and black tokens into a bag.
  • Red? Hubby picks which direction to turn.
  • Black? Wifey picks.
  • No more tokens? The first interesting place you see is your stop.
    Will you end up at a cute coffee shop? A scenic park? A fun new boutique? Let the adventure unfold!

💬 Flirty & Fun Road Trip Questions – While driving, keep the spark alive with these conversation starters:

  • If you could relive one of our past dates, which one would it be and why?
  • What’s one thing I do that turns you on instantly?
  • If we had 24 hours alone, no responsibilities, what’s the wildest thing we’d do?

🌹 A Love Note & Flowers Challenge – Make a stop at a flower shop and pick out flowers for each other—not just any bouquet, but something that represents your partner’s personality. Bonus: Write a little card to go with it.

🥂 Lunch or DIY Picnic Date

  • If you didn’t make dinner reservations, grab a picnic basket and fill it with easy, romantic bites.
  • Find a scenic spot and enjoy some slow, uninterrupted time together—reminisce about your favorite moments as a couple.

Evening: Time to Turn Up the Heat

🚿 Sensual Shower Together – After a day of adventure, step into a warm shower together.

  • Take turns massaging shampoo into each other’s hair.
  • Let the water relax you while you tease and tempt each other.
  • Keep it playful—steamy kisses, light touches, but save the real fun for later.

👗 The Big Reveal

  • She slips into the EveryLove lingerie, feeling sexy, confident, and irresistible.
  • A final touch of lipstick—maybe even leave a playful kiss mark on his cheek (or neck 👀).
  • He puts on his favorite look, ready to impress.

🌹 Set the Scene – Transform your space into a romantic oasis:

  • Scatter deep red rose petals on the bed.
  • Light a few candles for a warm, intimate glow.
  • Use the satin blindfold to heighten anticipation.

💆‍♂️ Intimate Massage Time

  • Warm up the Evree intimate massage cream in your hands.
  • Take turns giving each other a slow, teasing massage, letting your hands explore and build the tension.

🎲 Play XOXO! – Now it’s time for the sexy tic-tac-toe game.

  • Each move comes with a flirty challenge or sensual request.
  • Winner gets a romantic (or spicy) reward of their choice. 😉

🔥 The Grand Finale – At this point, there’s only one thing left to do: Enjoy each other, fully and completely.

VDay Breakfast in Bed Recipes

Fluffy 3-Ingredient Pancakes 🥞

Ingredients:

  • 1 ripe banana
  • 2 eggs
  • ½ teaspoon baking powder (optional, but makes them fluffier)

Instructions:

  1. Mash the banana in a bowl until smooth.
  2. Whisk in the eggs and baking powder until well combined.
  3. Heat a nonstick pan over medium heat and lightly grease with butter or oil.
  4. Pour small amounts of batter into the pan and cook for about 1-2 minutes per side, flipping when bubbles appear.
  5. Serve with syrup, peanut butter, or a sprinkle of cinnamon.

Crispy Cinnamon Sugar Toast 🍯✨

Ingredients:

  • 2 slices of bread (white, wheat, or sourdough)
  • 2 tbsp butter (softened)
  • 1 tbsp honey or 1 tbsp sugar
  • ½ tsp cinnamon

Instructions:

  1. Preheat your broiler or air fryer to 400°F.
  2. Spread a generous layer of butter on both slices of bread.
  3. Drizzle with honey or sprinkle with sugar and cinnamon.
  4. For the broiler: Place bread on a baking sheet and broil for 1-2 minutes, watching closely until golden and crispy.
  5. For the air fryer: Place in the air fryer basket and cook at 400°F for 3-5 minutes, until crisp and caramelized.
  6. Let cool slightly before serving—it’ll be hot and extra crunchy!

3. Quick & Creamy Yogurt Parfait 🍓

Ingredients:

  • 1 cup yogurt (vanilla or plain)
  • ½ cup granola or crushed cereal
  • ½ cup fresh or frozen fruit (bananas, berries, or apples work great)
  • Drizzle of honey (optional)

Instructions:

  1. Layer half of the yogurt in a glass or bowl.
  2. Add half of the granola and fruit.
  3. Repeat with the remaining yogurt, granola, and fruit.
  4. Drizzle with honey for extra sweetness.

Connecting Questions

What is something I’ve done in our relationship that made you feel truly seen, understood, and valued? What was it about that moment that stood out to you?

How do you feel our love has evolved over time? What are some ways we love each other differently now compared to when we first started dating?

What’s a part of yourself that you’ve felt safer sharing with me than with anyone else? How has that impacted you?

When you think about our most intimate moments—not just physically, but emotionally—what stands out to you the most? Why do you think those moments were so powerful?

What’s one area of our relationship where you feel we’ve grown the most, and what do you think helped us get there?

If we could relive one day together exactly as it happened, which day would you choose? What made it so special?

In what moments do you feel the most confident and loved in our relationship? How can I help create more of those moments for you?

What’s one thing you’ve learned about love and marriage from being with me that you didn’t fully understand before?

If someone asked you to describe the way I love you, what would you say? How does that compare to how you felt loved in the past?

What’s a dream or goal you have that I may not fully realize is important to you? How can I better support you in it?

What’s something I do—big or small—that makes you feel deeply desired by me?

If you could give our relationship a “love language recipe” (for example, 40% quality time, 30% touch, etc.), what would it be? Do you think it has changed over time?

What’s a challenge or tough season in our relationship that you feel we handled really well? What did we do that made it work?

Is there a way I can show up for you more in our relationship that I might not realize?

What is one thing I do that makes you feel instantly safe and secure? Why do you think that is?

When was the last time I surprised you in a way that made you feel truly loved? What made that moment stand out?

If we had to define what intimacy means in our relationship—not just physical intimacy, but emotional and spiritual—how would you describe it?

What’s a simple, everyday moment with me that you treasure more than I might realize?

If we could design the perfect “day of connection” together—no responsibilities, no distractions—what would it look like?

What’s something about the way I love you that you hope never changes?

Item List

  • 1 Piece of EveryLove Lingerie 
  • Evree Intimate Massage Cream 
  • Satin Ribbon Blindfold 
  • Deep Red Rose Petals
  • Box of Chocolate Truffles 
  • His and Her Complementing Sexy Scents 
  • Lipstick for Her
  • Sexy Game Boards

Beyond the Box

Go beyond your intimate date night this month by utilizing the Weekly Marriage Check-In.

It will help you and your partner align your priorities and avoid potential roadblocks throughout your week. We recommend having a weekly meeting to fill out your sheet together!